Enter an anniversary year, or your wedding date to find the next one, and see the traditional and modern gift themes, the gemstone, flower and theme color, plus practical gift ideas for each. The full year-by-year chart is below the result.
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How to use the Anniversary Gift by Year
Choose whether to look up a year number or use your wedding date.
Enter the year (for example 10) or pick your wedding date.
Press Find gifts to see the traditional and modern gift, gemstone, flower and color.
Browse the gift ideas and the full chart to plan ahead, then copy or download it.
The big milestone anniversaries
Year
Name
Symbolism and ideas
1st
Paper
A blank page for a new marriage: letters, photo books, tickets, art prints.
5th
Wood
Roots and growth: plant a tree, carved keepsakes, wooden furniture.
10th
Tin / aluminum
Durable yet flexible: tin keepsake boxes, or the modern diamond.
25th
Silver
A precious, bright milestone: silver jewelry, frames, a vow renewal.
30th
Pearl
Beauty formed over time: pearl jewelry or a trip to the sea.
40th
Ruby
Deep, lasting passion: ruby jewelry, red roses, a celebration dinner.
50th
Golden
Rare and treasured: gold gifts and a family celebration.
60th
Diamond
Strong and enduring: diamond jewelry and family memory books.
Tips for choosing an anniversary gift
Interpret the theme loosely: paper can mean concert tickets or a book, wood can mean a cabin weekend, cotton can mean a picnic blanket.
Combine themes: pair the traditional material with the anniversary flower, such as a wooden box with a daisy bouquet for the 5th.
Experiences count: trips, classes and dinners often become the gift you both remember most.
Write a note: whatever the gift, a short handwritten message about the past year makes it personal.
Gemstone, flower and color lists differ between sources; the ones shown here are commonly cited choices, not an official standard.
Frequently asked questions
What are the traditional anniversary gifts by year?
The most common US list starts with paper (1st), cotton (2nd), leather (3rd), fruit and flowers or linen (4th), wood (5th), iron or sugar (6th), wool or copper (7th), bronze (8th), pottery or willow (9th) and tin or aluminum (10th), then silver for the 25th, pearl for the 30th, ruby for the 40th, gold for the 50th and diamond for the 60th.
What is the difference between traditional and modern anniversary gifts?
Traditional themes come from older customs and early 20th-century etiquette lists, often using humble materials in the early years. The modern list was created in the mid-20th century to add more practical or contemporary options, such as clocks for the 1st year and diamond jewelry for the 10th.
What anniversaries have no traditional gift?
Most traditional lists skip years 16 to 19, 21 to 24 and 26 to 29. The modern list fills many of those years (for example furniture for the 17th and musical instruments for the 24th). After the 30th, themes are usually given only every five years.
Are anniversary gemstones and flowers official?
No. There is no single official list, and published lists of anniversary gemstones, flowers and colors vary. This tool uses commonly cited choices; feel free to pick what means the most to you.
What is the 14th anniversary gift if ivory is not allowed?
Ivory is the traditional 14th anniversary theme, but trade in elephant ivory is banned or heavily restricted in many countries. Choose ivory-colored items instead, or the modern gift, gold jewelry.
Do I have to follow the anniversary gift list?
Not at all. The themes are a fun prompt for creative gifts. A heartfelt letter, an experience together or a meaningful keepsake is often valued more than following the list exactly.
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